Why Married Men Are Doing More Housework Than Ever
In a notable shift from traditional gender roles, married men are increasingly taking on household chores like cleaning, cooking, and childcare. Recent research published in Socius reveals that the gender gap in housework has shrunk by 40% over the past two decades. The pandemic played a significant role in accelerating this change, forcing both men and women to spend more time at home, balancing work and domestic responsibilities.

Changing Gender Norms
The study suggests that societal perceptions of gender roles are evolving. Tasks once deemed “women’s work” are now seen as part of everyday life. Melissa Milkie, lead author and sociologist at the University of Toronto, stated, “There is a hopeful story here,” highlighting a move toward more equitable partnerships in marriages.
The Impact of the Pandemic
During the COVID-19 lockdowns, men’s participation in housework saw a marked increase, and unlike women, men have maintained these habits post-pandemic. This shift is attributed to more flexible work arrangements and a growing recognition of domestic work’s value.
Age and Household Chores
Interestingly, the study found that older married men tend to spend more time on occasional housework, while older women continue to handle core household tasks. This age-related pattern suggests that while progress has been made, traditional gender roles still influence how tasks are divided.
What This Means for Relationships
Experts suggest that this trend could have positive implications for marital satisfaction and stability. Sharing domestic duties can reduce conflict and create a sense of partnership and equality within marriages.
The increasing involvement of married men in household chores marks a significant cultural shift. As gender norms continue to evolve, the focus should remain on promoting equity and shared responsibility at home.
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