Irish Women Feel ‘Gaslit’ as Free IVF Scheme Expansion Delayed Indefinitely
In October 2024, the Irish government announced plans to expand its publicly funded IVF scheme to include couples with existing children, addressing the needs of those experiencing secondary infertility. However, as of May 2025, this expansion has been delayed indefinitely, leaving many hopeful parents feeling frustrated and misled.

The Promise of Expansion
The initial IVF scheme, launched in September 2023, provided one state-funded cycle of fertility treatment for eligible couples without children. Recognizing the emotional and financial strain of secondary infertility, the government pledged to broaden the scheme’s criteria. Health Minister Stephen Donnelly stated that the expansion would allow couples with existing children to access treatment, aiming to implement these changes in 2025.
Delays and Uncertainty
Despite these assurances, the Department of Health has not provided a timeline for the expansion’s implementation. Reports indicate that the Health Service Executive (HSE) and other stakeholders are still addressing potential issues related to the scheme’s broadening.
This lack of clarity has left many couples in limbo. One woman, aged 38, expressed her frustration: “I’m 38, time is not on my side; I can’t wait any longer.” She applied for the scheme in December, anticipating the promised changes, but has yet to receive any updates.
Feelings of Betrayal
For many, the government’s inaction feels like a betrayal. The term “gaslit” has been used to describe the experience of being promised support, only to face indefinite delays. The emotional toll of infertility is compounded by the uncertainty and perceived indifference from those in power.
Financial and Emotional Strain
The cost of IVF in Ireland can reach up to €10,000 per cycle, making it inaccessible for many without financial assistance. Couples often require multiple cycles to achieve pregnancy, further increasing the financial burden.
The emotional impact is equally significant. The hope of expanding one’s family, followed by delays and uncertainty, can lead to feelings of despair and helplessness.
Calls for Action
Advocacy groups and medical professionals are urging the government to fulfill its promises. A survey of Irish GPs found that nearly two-thirds believe the restriction on couples with existing children accessing state-funded fertility treatment is unfair.
There is a growing consensus that the government must act swiftly to implement the promised expansions, ensuring equitable access to fertility treatments for all who need them.
The delay in expanding Ireland’s free IVF scheme has left many feeling abandoned and deceived. As time continues to pass, the window of opportunity for many hopeful parents narrows. It is imperative that the government honors its commitments, providing timely and equitable access to fertility treatments for all.
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